Coaching / Lay-therapy
You’ve done everything right in life, it’s all going to plan, but it feels a bit empty and false. Something’s off.
I work with you, building capacity to stay with what is real, even when it is uncomfortable, confusing, or emotionally charged. You are capable, thoughtful, and tired of skimming the surface of life.
If you want techniques to bypass fear, or certainty delivered from a distance, this is not for you. If you want to be met fully and told the truth, with care, let's arrange a call.
What it’s like
I bring full presence to the moment we are in. I let myself be impacted by what you bring, rather than managing it from a safe remove. Like fear, grief, ambivalence, conflict, collapse… Not rushing to resolve them, but exploring them in the moment.
- Care even when things get intense
- Sharp pattern-recognition, named plainly
- Humour and lightness, to ease into blocks
- Respect for your intelligence and emotional limits
You will not be pushed past yourself. You will also not be allowed to hide.
What this makes possible
When someone is met without judgement and without avoidance, something predictable happens:
- Defences soften
- Avoided topics become workable
- Emotional charge reduces
- Perspective shifts
Clients often describe letting go of long-held protection, trusting their own experience more, and seeing responsibility, boundaries, money, and relationship dynamics with new accuracy.
Who this is for
You’re a truly influential leader, powerful, capable and impacting the world around you. You know the areas of your life that need change or repair.
This work fits if:
- You feel inwardly divided rather than broken
- You avoid certain topics because of the emotion attached to them
- You want truth without humiliation
- You are willing to feel before you fix
Who this is not for
This is not for you if:
- You want fast answers without emotional engagement
- You prefer techniques over relationship
- You expect certainty before vulnerability
- You want someone to take responsibility for your life
- You aren’t willing to participate
About me
I am unusually present. I pay close attention to what is said, what is avoided, and what becomes charged in the room. I notice patterns quickly and I name them without judgement, and without cushioning them into irrelevance. People often trust me because I do not rush them, and because I do not disappear when things become difficult.
How do you start?
I work with a small number of people. Before we start sessions, we’ll have a call to meet and assess what you believe you want support with. This is not a formality. It helps us sense whether this way of working is appropriate.
If you want to meet yourself with honesty, care, and clarity, and allow something real to change, you can apply below.